{"id":8148,"date":"2013-08-01T22:31:15","date_gmt":"2013-08-01T21:31:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.eurosource.se\/akhe\/wordpress\/?p=8148"},"modified":"2015-11-19T21:46:35","modified_gmt":"2015-11-19T20:46:35","slug":"vanner-skall-man-vara-radd-om","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=8148","title":{"rendered":"“V\u00e4nner skall man vara r\u00e4dd om.”"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\n“V\u00e4nner skall man vara r\u00e4dd om.”
\nJa, jag tror p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r. Man skall vara r\u00e4dd om v\u00e4nner. \u00c4nd\u00e5 \u00e4r v\u00e4l inte jag den som har varit det genom \u00e5ren. Jag har liksom alltid tyckt det varit sv\u00e5rt att bara ringa och prata eller bara komma och h\u00e4lsa p\u00e5 s\u00e5 d\u00e4r hipp som happ. R\u00e4dd f\u00f6r att st\u00f6ra s\u00e5klart, och fast folk bedyrar att de s\u00e4ger till om de inte har tid s\u00e5 ligger det d\u00e4r mantrat om att inte st\u00f6ra djupt kvar inom mig och har gjort \u00e4nda sedan jag var ung. “T\u00e4nk om jag st\u00f6r!” L\u00e4gger man sedan till detta att jag jobbat 365\/12\/30\/7 f\u00f6r det mesta och haft pass p\u00e5 sexton timmar i princip varje dag s\u00e5 hj\u00e4lper det ju inte upp saker. De flesta v\u00e4nner ger upp p\u00e5 en efter ett tag av f\u00f6rst\u00e5eliga sk\u00e4l.<\/p>\n

Utom en d\u00e5. Tony. Som alltid h\u00f6r av sig och finns d\u00e4r. Som jag kan s\u00e4ga allt och precis vad som helst till och som kan s\u00e4ga allt och precis vad som helst till mig och om mig. Som aldrig gett upp. Som jag definitivt inte f\u00f6rtj\u00e4nat att ha kvar som v\u00e4n f\u00f6r det \u00e4r alltid (ja i alla fall n\u00e4stan) han som f\u00e5tt h\u00f6ra av sig. Men som finns kvar d\u00e4r \u00e4nd\u00e5 och som \u00e4r helt olika mig och tycker olika i det mesta och beter sig helt olika mot vad jag g\u00f6r i n\u00e4stan allt. Men v\u00e4nner \u00e4r vi och har v\u00e4l varit det nu i 37 \u00e5r tror jag det \u00e4r. Idag en eftermiddag i hans och hans sambos sommarstuga och det \u00e4r som vi tr\u00e4ffades varje dag fast det var ett \u00e5r sedan sist. Rikedom \u00e4r vad det \u00e4r och gl\u00e4dje i en o-cool gubbes hj\u00e4rta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“V\u00e4nner skall man vara r\u00e4dd om.” Ja, jag tror p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r. Man skall vara r\u00e4dd om v\u00e4nner. \u00c4nd\u00e5 \u00e4r v\u00e4l inte jag den som har varit det genom \u00e5ren. Jag har liksom alltid tyckt det varit sv\u00e5rt att bara ringa och prata eller bara komma och h\u00e4lsa p\u00e5 s\u00e5 d\u00e4r hipp som happ. R\u00e4dd […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8148","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-betraktelser"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":14470,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=14470","url_meta":{"origin":8148,"position":0},"title":"Ni \u00e4r alla underbara","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2014-08-24","format":false,"excerpt":"En g\u00e5ng t\u00e4nkte jag att jag skulle samla alla d\u00e5liga recensioner och alla andra misslyckanden i en l\u00e5da, s\u00e4tta upp de v\u00e4rsta p\u00e5 v\u00e4ggen, ja ni fattar. 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