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Sonen fyller \u00e5r idag. Trettiosju. En bra \u00e5lder. Man har skaffat sig erfarenhet och har mycket liv kvar att anv\u00e4nda sig av den erfarenheten. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gratulerandet f\u00e5r bli medelst SMS och brev. Han har rotat sig i stora staden, vi i skogen. L\u00e5ngt emellan oss till vardags.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det \u00e4r n\u00e4r ens barn fyller \u00e5r och n\u00e4r man ser de tr\u00e4d man lekte vid som barn, som man inser hur gammal man \u00e4r. Till vardags t\u00e4nker man inte s\u00e5 mycket p\u00e5 just det. Men att ungarna adderar \u00e5r till sina liv och att tr\u00e4den som var en meter d\u00e5 n\u00e4r man var liten, hsr blivit bj\u00e4ssar p\u00e5 tjugo meter idag, det \u00e4r faktum som man inte kan bortse ifr\u00e5n. \u00c5r har g\u00e5tt och \u00e5r g\u00e5r. Man \u00c4R gammal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fast det \u00e4r som det skall s\u00e5klart. Ungarna klarar sig sj\u00e4lva. Tr\u00e4den fr\u00e5n barndomen med. Precis som det skall vara \u00e4r det. Finns ingen anledning att grina. Bara att hurra f\u00f6r livet. Det finns en njutning i att vara gammal ocks\u00e5. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jod\u00e5, det finns folk som liksom gr\u00e4ver ner “gammal” flera meter ner i jorden. Tittar man inte \u00e5t andra h\u00e5llet s\u00e5 \u00e4r man INTE<\/strong> “gammal<\/em>” \u00e4r sj\u00e4lva devisen. Det \u00e4r samma personer som drar t\u00e4cket \u00f6ver \u00f6gonen n\u00e4r de tror sig se ett sp\u00f6ke. Tror inte p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r. Inte ett dugg. “Gammal<\/em>” \u00e4r bara ett epitet som s\u00e4tts p\u00e5 en \u00e4nd\u00e5. Det \u00e4r vad man g\u00f6r av livet, ja och kanske \u00e4nnu mer INTE<\/strong> g\u00f6r av livet, som r\u00e4knas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mildare v\u00e4der i ant\u00e5gande. V\u00e4deromslag v\u00e4lkomnas av mig och Atlas nere i k\u00e4llaren. Vi har blivit skapligt goda v\u00e4nner nu. Kanske inte lika tighta som Hulken och jag \u00e4r. Men Atlas \u00e4r nog den b\u00e4sta investering vi gjort n\u00e5gonsin h\u00e4r i huset. Jad\u00e5, trotts elpriser som skjuter i h\u00f6jden till tidigare oanade h\u00f6jder. Alla visare pekar \u00e4nd\u00e5 p\u00e5 plus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Skall till Ljusdal och l\u00e4mna in bilen idag. Service. En nymodighet f\u00f6r mig. Har v\u00e4l aldrig tidigare f\u00f6ljt n\u00e5gra serviceintervall med n\u00e5gon bil jag \u00e4gt. Byt olja varje \u00e5r s\u00e5klart. Bytt saker n\u00e4r de g\u00e5tt s\u00f6nder. Men aldrig s\u00e5h\u00e4r. K\u00e4nns som en oerh\u00f6rd lyx att kunna g\u00f6ra. S\u00e4krar ocks\u00e5 tillvaron som bil\u00e4gare. Dyrt s\u00e5klart. Alltid hittar man n\u00e5got som skall \u00e5tg\u00e4rdas. Alltid \u00e4r det n\u00e5got som h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 att g\u00e5 s\u00f6nder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00e5ja, bara l\u00e4mna idag, sen buss hem. Sanningen (domen om man s\u00e5 vill) f\u00e5r man imorgon. Sen buss ner p\u00e5 fredag (f\u00f6rhoppningsvis). T\u00f6mma alla konton. \u00d6verf\u00f6ra till bilverkstaden. Fara hem\u00e5t fattigare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sonen fyller \u00e5r idag. Trettiosju. En bra \u00e5lder. Man har skaffat sig erfarenhet och har mycket liv kvar att anv\u00e4nda sig av den erfarenheten. Gratulerandet f\u00e5r bli medelst SMS och brev. Han har rotat sig i stora staden, vi i skogen. L\u00e5ngt emellan oss till vardags. 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