{"id":47158,"date":"2024-02-18T21:47:49","date_gmt":"2024-02-18T20:47:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=47158"},"modified":"2024-02-18T21:47:49","modified_gmt":"2024-02-18T20:47:49","slug":"artionden","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=47158","title":{"rendered":"\u00c5rtionden"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00c4ldste sonen fyller trettiofem idag. Helt ofattbart s\u00e5klart. Det k\u00e4nns ju som alldeles nyss man \u00e5kte hem i bilen fr\u00e5n BB med honom i den d\u00e4r “b\u00e4rgrejen<\/em>” och man undrade hur i helvete man skulle klara av det h\u00e4r. Allts\u00e5 att bli f\u00f6r\u00e4lder. Inga kurser ges ju f\u00f6r s\u00e5dant. Man f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntas helt enkelt att klara av allt som har att g\u00f6ra med en liten varelses \u00f6verlevnad att g\u00f6ra utan f\u00f6reg\u00e5ende tr\u00e4ning och slutprov. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men jag tror det gick tydligen ganska skapligt \u00e4nd\u00e5. I alla fall \u00e4r han en fungerande ung herre som andra fungerande unga herrar d\u00e4r i Uppsala idag. Har sitt liv. I med och motvind s\u00e5klart, som det alltid \u00e4r att vara en av de levandes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det \u00e4r i betraktandet av omkretsen p\u00e5 tr\u00e4d som man lekte vid som ung och i sina barns \u00e5lder som man inser att man sj\u00e4lv \u00e4r p\u00e5 v\u00e4g ut ur tiden. Ocks\u00e5 det som det skall vara. Det \u00e4r helt r\u00e4ttvist och exakt samma f\u00f6r alla. Det spelar ingen roll hur mycket pengar du har. Ditt liv \u00e4r \u00e4nd\u00e5 utm\u00e4tt. En dag finns ingen av oss. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fast \u00e4nd\u00e5 g\u00e5r man ju inte och t\u00e4nker s\u00e5 om dagarna. Tiden r\u00f6r sig fram\u00e5t och man med den. Men om det finns saker man verkligen vill g\u00f6ra s\u00e5 \u00e4r det s\u00e5klart nu man skall ta sig ann dom. Beta av sin bucketlist. Ja och jag har m\u00e5nga kamrater i min \u00e5lder som g\u00f6r just det. Det har nog aldrig funnits en pension\u00e4rsgeneration som haft det s\u00e5 bra, och som tagit f\u00f6r sig s\u00e5 bra av det goda. Bra<\/strong> tycker jag. HURRA rent utav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men jod\u00e5, det finns n\u00e5gra f\u00e5 ocks\u00e5 som jobbar p\u00e5. Tillsynes i jobb som inte borde vara s\u00e5d\u00e4r otroligt upplyftande. Men vad vet man. Kanske \u00e4r de det. Men tyv\u00e4rr tror jag att det oftast handla rom pengar. Pengar “till sen<\/em>“. Han\/hon\/det\/gud burkar dock ha en h\u00e4rlig humor n\u00e4r det g\u00e4ller det d\u00e4r “sen<\/em>“. Trollar bort det helt enkelt. Tjoff! Borta! Sen st\u00e5r man d\u00e4r n\u00e4r det \u00e4r f\u00f6r sent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jag tror p\u00e5 “nu<\/em>“. Har alltid gjort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c4ldste sonen fyller trettiofem idag. Helt ofattbart s\u00e5klart. Det k\u00e4nns ju som alldeles nyss man \u00e5kte hem i bilen fr\u00e5n BB med honom i den d\u00e4r “b\u00e4rgrejen” och man undrade hur i helvete man skulle klara av det h\u00e4r. Allts\u00e5 att bli f\u00f6r\u00e4lder. Inga kurser ges ju f\u00f6r s\u00e5dant. Man f\u00f6rv\u00e4ntas helt enkelt att klara […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-47158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-betraktelser"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":45858,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=45858","url_meta":{"origin":47158,"position":0},"title":"Sn\u00e5lheten","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2023-09-01","format":false,"excerpt":"Jod\u00e5. 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