{"id":46626,"date":"2023-12-04T21:21:16","date_gmt":"2023-12-04T20:21:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=46626"},"modified":"2023-12-04T21:23:39","modified_gmt":"2023-12-04T20:23:39","slug":"fegfisar-ar-vi-allesammans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=46626","title":{"rendered":"Fegfisar \u00e4r vi allesammans"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Lite av en nolldag. Det blir lite s\u00e5 med alla s\u00e5dana h\u00e4r kalldagar. All energi g\u00e5r \u00e5t till att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka h\u00e5lla v\u00e4rmen. Det lyckas man inte med i alla fall. Man fryser och man fryser och man fryser trotts alla extraelement, en HULK som st\u00e5r och hoppar och stora f\u00f6rhoppningar om uppv\u00e4rmning till svettgr\u00e4ns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00e5 javisst, Bahamas vore finfint. Kanske till och med Grekland eller Portugal eller Italien skulle kunna duga. Men p\u00e5 kullen blir man v\u00e4l sannolikt initiativl\u00f6st kvar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Men har sett till att sm\u00e5f\u00e5glarna f\u00e5tt p\u00e5fyllning idag. M\u00e4ngder av dom h\u00e4r nu. Katterna dr\u00e4glar och jag f\u00f6rs\u00f6ker varna de sm\u00e5 dinosarie\u00e4ttlingarna. N\u00e5gon ny bekantskap vid matutl\u00e4mningen idag dessutom. Lik n\u00f6tskrika men inte n\u00f6tskrika. M\u00e5ste efterforskas. M\u00f6jlig ungf\u00e5gel. Aldrig sett tidigare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00e5gelmatandet \u00e4r lite som godis\u00e4tande. Dyrt men man m\u00e5r gott av det. Kostar d\u00e4rf\u00f6r p\u00e5 sig den d\u00e4r lilla extravagansen. Ingen vinter \u00e4r fullt \u00f6verlevnadsbar utan sm\u00e5f\u00e5glar utanf\u00f6r f\u00f6nstret. Om nu vintrar \u00f6ver huvud taget kan bli \u00f6verlevnadsbara. D\u00f6r man inte lite varje \u00e5r kanske! Ja och inte sker det d\u00e4r l\u00e5ngsamma d\u00f6endet under sommaren inte. Nope. Det finns forskning som bevisar att kylan \u00e4r d\u00f6dlig. Ungef\u00e4r som att \u00e4ta fetaste maten. F\u00f6rdelen med det \u00e4r s\u00e5klart att man snabbt blir av med alla hurtiga vinter\u00e4lskare som utropar “JAG \u00c4LSKAR VINTER<\/em>” s\u00e5 fort de ser en sn\u00f6flinga. Fast en del av dom sportar ju s\u00e5 f\u00f6rbannat s\u00e5 dom kompenserar v\u00e4l f\u00f6r det k\u00f6lden tar i dagar och \u00e5r. Fegfisarna. Blir kvar. Forts\u00e4tter att hurtigt m\u00e4ssa vinterns lov. Urk!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Farsan, Morsan och \u00e4ldste sonen. Det fanns villkorsl\u00f6s k\u00e4rlek h\u00e4r. Svara mig du, var finns den nu. Morsan s\u00e5klart. Hon hade n\u00e4ra till k\u00e4rlek och l\u00e4tt f\u00f6r att ge allt utan att tveka. Farsan mer f\u00f6rv\u00e5nande. Han mjuknade. Blev rent av lite bl\u00f6dig. Den sidan hade man inte sett f\u00f6rut hos honom. Han den alltid starke. Allt det d\u00e4r i den h\u00e4r bilden fr\u00e5n Ejheden. F\u00f6rf\u00e4ders skogar, sj\u00f6ar, berg och land. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Som f\u00f6r\u00e4lder \u00e4r det s\u00e5klart l\u00e4tt att \u00e4lska sina barn. Det \u00e4r stora saker som m\u00e5ste h\u00e4nda f\u00f6r att den k\u00e4nslan skall l\u00e4mna. Ovillkorat. Och en skyldighet s\u00e5klart. D\u00e4rf\u00f6r \u00e4r det v\u00e4ldigt sv\u00e5rt att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 hederskultur och hedersv\u00e5ld. Sen m\u00e5ste s\u00e5klart barnen f\u00e5 g\u00e5 sina egna v\u00e4gar. V\u00e4lja sina egna v\u00e4nner och partners. \u00c4lska dem de vill. Och man m\u00e5ste f\u00f6rst\u00e5 att de band de knyter kan krocka med f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarelationen. Om inte annat bara f\u00f6r husfridens skull i det liv man lever och vill forts\u00e4tta leva i. Vi har v\u00e4l alla varit d\u00e4r. Gjort dom besluten. Som f\u00f6r\u00e4lder \u00e4r man \u00e4r skyldig att \u00e4lska sina barn men kan inte beg\u00e4ra att barnen \u00e4lskar dig<\/strong><\/em> tillbaks<\/em><\/strong>. Det d\u00e4r \u00e4r l\u00e4ttare att leva upp till \u00e4n vad man tror.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kullen min borg. Beh\u00f6vs vatten f\u00f6r att fylla vattengraven nedanf\u00f6r. Sjumilaregn. Sen kan jag sitta h\u00e4r. Ingen kan l\u00e4ngre n\u00e5 kullen. S\u00e5klart muttrandes. Tills det tar slut. Men just den framtidsutsikten ter sig inte alls s\u00e4rskilt d\u00e5lig alls om n\u00e5gon nu tror det. En kulle – ett liv. Lite p\u00e5 pin kiv.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lite av en nolldag. Det blir lite s\u00e5 med alla s\u00e5dana h\u00e4r kalldagar. All energi g\u00e5r \u00e5t till att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka h\u00e5lla v\u00e4rmen. Det lyckas man inte med i alla fall. Man fryser och man fryser och man fryser trotts alla extraelement, en HULK som st\u00e5r och hoppar och stora f\u00f6rhoppningar om uppv\u00e4rmning till svettgr\u00e4ns. 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