{"id":29290,"date":"2018-07-13T13:55:20","date_gmt":"2018-07-13T12:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=29290"},"modified":"2018-07-13T13:58:02","modified_gmt":"2018-07-13T12:58:02","slug":"alskar-alskar-inte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=29290","title":{"rendered":"\u00c4lskar, \u00c4lskar inte…"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Kan man \u00e4lska m\u00e4nniskorna men inte mentaliteten. S\u00e5 \u00e4r det f\u00f6r mig. Att bo h\u00e4r. Att finnas h\u00e4r. I Los. I H\u00e4lsingland.\u00a0\u00a0 Jag gillar verkligen m\u00e4nniskorna h\u00e4r, ja och skogarna, bergen, sj\u00f6arna. Men mentaliteten. Den som s\u00e4ger att r\u00e4ddningen alltid kommer utifr\u00e5n, som g\u00f6r att man alltid ropar “kom och hj\u00e4lp oss” ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att hj\u00e4lpa sig sj\u00e4lva. Japp. Det d\u00e4r hatar jag.<\/p>\n

Jod\u00e5. Nog hj\u00e4lper man sig sj\u00e4lv h\u00e4r ocks\u00e5. Men bara SIG SJ\u00c4LV. Fast det \u00e4r fel ocks\u00e5. Det finns en fin hj\u00e4lpa varandra mentalitet h\u00e4r ocks\u00e5. Som \u00f6verallt annars p\u00e5 landsbygden. Men inte den d\u00e4r by-andan. Att hj\u00e4lpa OSS sj\u00e4lva som kollektiv. Att det finns ett “OSS”. Det verkar som byarna har f\u00f6rlorat det d\u00e4r. \u00c5tminstone de flesta. Los definitivt.<\/p>\n

Men kanske r\u00e4cker det med att \u00e4lska m\u00e4nniskorna och platsen d\u00e4r man bor. Kanske skall man f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka l\u00e5ta bli att gripa efter det d\u00e4r “OSS”. Ja, bara forts\u00e4tta. Som om det fanns. \u00c5t helvete – som en del \u00e4lskar att p\u00e5st\u00e5 – g\u00e5r det i alla fall inte. Allt blir b\u00e4ttre. Ocks\u00e5 ute p\u00e5 landet.<\/p>\n

Jag h\u00f6r att startuperna skrika efter utbildad personal. H\u00f6gt skriker man. Men jag ser dem g\u00f6r v\u00e4ldigt lite sj\u00e4lv f\u00f6r att r\u00e5da bot p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r problemet. Man brukar s\u00e4ga att b\u00f6nder gn\u00e4ller j\u00e4mt. Men startuper (alla dragna \u00f6ver en kam h\u00e4r d\u00e5) \u00e4r tamefan v\u00e4rre \u00e4n v\u00e4rst.\u00a0 De bidrar j\u00e4kligt lite till samh\u00e4llet (f\u00f6rluster) men kr\u00e4ver mycket. \u00c4r det d\u00e4r ett problem – l\u00f6s det. Idioter!<\/p>\n

Fast skit i samma. Uppn\u00e4sor…<\/p>\n

Eller avundsjuka… h\u00e4rifr\u00e5n…<\/p>\n

Hur som helt skall jag ta det lite lugnt snart. Men from tisdag, inte idag, som det var t\u00e4nkt. Ja lugnt. “Kan man ta lugnare \u00e4n vad jag g\u00f6r” s\u00e4ger du. N\u00e4, s\u00e5 kan man ju ocks\u00e5 se det. Men \u00e4nd\u00e5. Liksom. \u00c4nnu lugnare d\u00e5.<\/p>\n

Annars \u00e4r det varmt. Torrt ocks\u00e5. Tre droppar regn ig\u00e5r. Vi gick rakt igenom en \u00e5skcell uppdelad i tv\u00e5 delar. Vi i mitten. Skyfall p\u00e5 b\u00e5da delarna p\u00e5 sidorna. D\u00e5ligt med bevattning.<\/p>\n

Men sk\u00f6nt. Man \u00e4r iof ovan. Men vilken sommar. Tack, tack, tack.<\/p>\n

Nu annat. L\u00e5tsasjobb rent utav.<\/p>\n

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Kan man \u00e4lska m\u00e4nniskorna men inte mentaliteten. S\u00e5 \u00e4r det f\u00f6r mig. Att bo h\u00e4r. Att finnas h\u00e4r. I Los. I H\u00e4lsingland.\u00a0\u00a0 Jag gillar verkligen m\u00e4nniskorna h\u00e4r, ja och skogarna, bergen, sj\u00f6arna. Men mentaliteten. Den som s\u00e4ger att r\u00e4ddningen alltid kommer utifr\u00e5n, som g\u00f6r att man alltid ropar “kom och hj\u00e4lp oss” ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-betraktelser"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":13556,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=13556","url_meta":{"origin":29290,"position":0},"title":"Semester, men inte jag, fast lite.","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2014-06-14","format":false,"excerpt":"L\u00f6rdag och Karin har semester. 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