En not och tanke bara fr\u00e5n en vanlig m\u00e4nniska som ocks\u00e5 r\u00e5kar vara man
\nI en #MeToo atikel skrev en tjej att m\u00e4n skall l\u00e4sa fler b\u00f6cker om tjejer och deras liv. F\u00f6r att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 hur det \u00e4r att vara kvinna. Som om det \u00e4r hemskt. Som om det \u00e4r ett handikapp. Ja och om n\u00e5gon orkar titta igenom de b\u00f6cker jag l\u00e4st de senaste \u00e5ren s\u00e5 kommer flertalet ha kvinnor i huvudrollen. \u00c4r det m\u00e4n med s\u00e5 \u00e4r de tuffingar och poliser eller ocks\u00e5 \u00e4r det\u00a0 Ulf Lundell varelser som lever den fries och omhuldades liv. Det finns n\u00e4stan inga ber\u00e4ttelser om hur det \u00e4r att vara man. Ja i alla fall \u00e4r de sv\u00e5r att hitta.\u00a0 Eller ocks\u00e5 \u00e4r otillg\u00e4ngliga i sin l\u00e4sv\u00e4rdhet – l\u00e4s tungsinta.<\/p>\n
Men visst har artikelf\u00f6rfattaren r\u00e4tt i att man f\u00f6rst\u00e5r kvinnor lite mer om man lever deras liv genom deras egna ber\u00e4ttelser och \u00f6gon. Men det r\u00e4cker liksom inte. F\u00f6r det finns inte en kvinna.\u00a0 Den kvinna som det ber\u00e4ttas om i den h\u00e4r boken \u00e4r s\u00e5 oerh\u00f6rt annorlunda \u00e4n en kvinna i Pakistan eller f\u00f6r den delen sin granne. Samma sak g\u00e4ller f\u00f6r m\u00e4nnen s\u00e5klart. Vi \u00e4r olika. Om vi l\u00e4r oss om varandra l\u00e4r vi oss leva med varandra. F\u00f6rst\u00e5 lite av det som inte s\u00e4gs. Fattar hur det \u00e4r att g\u00e5 i n\u00e5gon annans skor. Men att begr\u00e4nsa sig till s\u00e5 enkla sanningar som kvinnan i sin artikel \u00e4r bara underligt. P\u00e5 samma niv\u00e5 s\u00e5klart som de som skanderar att “alla m\u00e4n bara \u00e4r k\u00e5ta svin”. Det \u00e4r vi inte alls det. Inte de flesta av oss.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Eleanor Oliphant m\u00e5r alldeles utm\u00e4rkt av Gail Honeyman\u00a0 OJ, liksom. Jag \u00e4r alldeles of\u00f6rberedd p\u00e5 det h\u00e4r. Att \u00e5rets b\u00e4sta bok skall bli utl\u00e4st s\u00e5h\u00e4r p\u00e5 \u00e5rets sista dag. F\u00f6r \u00e5ret har definitivt inneh\u00e5llit fler “f\u00f6rbannat bra” b\u00f6cker \u00e4n ett normal\u00e5r s\u00e5 det borde inte funnits utrymme f\u00f6r en till. Men den h\u00e4r… ja den […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bocker"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":23395,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=23395","url_meta":{"origin":26480,"position":0},"title":"Senast l\u00e4sta bok","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2017-02-18","format":false,"excerpt":"Eugen Kallmans \u00f6gon av H\u00e5kan Nesser. 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