{"id":25685,"date":"2017-10-20T17:13:03","date_gmt":"2017-10-20T16:13:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=25685"},"modified":"2018-08-21T20:28:56","modified_gmt":"2018-08-21T19:28:56","slug":"bar-och-harar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=25685","title":{"rendered":"B\u00e4r och harar."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-25659\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045-1024x768.jpg?resize=580%2C435\" alt=\"\" width=\"580\" height=\"435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?resize=400%2C300&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?w=1160&amp;ssl=1 1160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/IMG_20171018_072201045.jpg?w=1740&amp;ssl=1 1740w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 580px) 100vw, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>De d\u00e4r k\u00f6rsb\u00e4ren i ren sprit \u00e4r livsfarliga. Tre stycken s\u00e4nker en oxe. De f\u00e5r allts\u00e5 ligga kvar d\u00e4r de ligger i sin burk ikv\u00e4ll ocks\u00e5. S\u00e4tter jag mig i den gr\u00f6na IKEA soffan s\u00e5 \u00e4r jag s\u00e5 gott som s\u00e4nkt redan n\u00e4r rumpan n\u00e5tt dynorna \u00e4nd\u00e5. Spritdr\u00e4nkta b\u00e4r beh\u00f6vs inte.\u00a0 S\u00e5 \u00e4r det med fredagarna h\u00e4r. Batterierna r\u00e4cker fram hit till n\u00e5gra minuter f\u00f6re sex. Inte l\u00e4ngre. Det \u00e4r gammeln och traditioner. En tr\u00f6tt gammal gubbe som ger upp efter en veckas l\u00e5tsasjobb.<\/p>\n<p>Veckan har s\u00e5klart varit p\u00e5 tok f\u00f6r kort. Som vanligt. De rinner iv\u00e4g veckorna och med dem livet. Men jag har hunnit med det som planerades. Mer kan man kanske inte beg\u00e4ra i min \u00e5lder. det kan inte hj\u00e4lpas att det g\u00f6r ont att se veckorna rasa fram s\u00e5d\u00e4r. Vill s\u00e5 mycket mer, ja det vill man. Men inte kan man. Inte ensam. Inte sj\u00e4lv.<\/p>\n<p>#metoo taggen sk\u00f6rdar sina offer. Ja och med r\u00e4tta antar jag. Men sj\u00e4lv ser jag hellre polisanm\u00e4lningar och efterf\u00f6ljande r\u00e4tteg\u00e5ngar \u00e4n att folk h\u00e4ngs ut p\u00e5 sociala medier. Alla \u00e4r oskyldiga tills bevisad om motsatsen. Men s\u00e5klart. Ingen kvinna skall bli tafsad p\u00e5 eller bli sexuellt ofredad f\u00f6r att hon \u00e4r kvinna. Fast egentligen borde det v\u00e4l vara &#8220;INGEN&#8221; det d\u00e4r g\u00e4ller. Allts\u00e5 varken man eller kvinna eller vad det nu \u00e4r man vill tillh\u00f6ra f\u00f6r X. Det h\u00e4r &#8220;vi och dom&#8221;. Jag blir lite r\u00e4dd f\u00f6r det. Eller mycket r\u00e4dd snarare..<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e4r jag b\u00f6rjade jobba p\u00e5 gymnasiet s\u00e5 fick jag r\u00e5det att inte ta p\u00e5 flickorna i klasserna. Det kunde missuppfattas, hur \u00e4n oskyldigt det \u00e4n var. Allts\u00e5 om man tog n\u00e5gon p\u00e5 armen, la en arm \u00f6ver en axel, tog en hand, s\u00e5 kunde det uppfattas som en sexuell handling. Galet tycker jag. Jag tar p\u00e5 folk, kramar folk. Killar och tjejer. St\u00e5r f\u00f6r det. Hade hellre sparkats fr\u00e5n min tj\u00e4nst \u00e4n att anpassa mig till f\u00e5nigheter. Vi kan inte bli r\u00e4dda harar heller. Man borde kunna respektera varandra \u00e4nd\u00e5. Utan att bli iskalla isstoder.<\/p>\n<p>Fast vad vet en gammal gubbe som jag. Vi skall h\u00e5lla k\u00e4ften. Det \u00e4r r\u00e4tt och r\u00e4ttvist.\u00a0 Vi \u00e4r lite mer ansvariga f\u00f6r el\u00e4ndet i v\u00e4rlden \u00e4n alla andra. Liksom.<\/p>\n<p>Jaha? tycker man. Men h\u00e5ller k\u00e4ften och kryper undan.<\/p>\n<p>Men nu. Slut f\u00f6r den h\u00e4r veckan. Mat, godis och film. Jojo. Trevlig helg p\u00e5 er allesammans!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De d\u00e4r k\u00f6rsb\u00e4ren i ren sprit \u00e4r livsfarliga. Tre stycken s\u00e4nker en oxe. De f\u00e5r allts\u00e5 ligga kvar d\u00e4r de ligger i sin burk ikv\u00e4ll ocks\u00e5. S\u00e4tter jag mig i den gr\u00f6na IKEA soffan s\u00e5 \u00e4r jag s\u00e5 gott som s\u00e4nkt redan n\u00e4r rumpan n\u00e5tt dynorna \u00e4nd\u00e5. Spritdr\u00e4nkta b\u00e4r beh\u00f6vs inte.\u00a0 S\u00e5 \u00e4r det med [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25685","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-betraktelser"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":22773,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=22773","url_meta":{"origin":25685,"position":0},"title":"Orkar inte mer soffa","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2017-01-07","format":false,"excerpt":"I h\u00e4nderna p\u00e5 riskkapital kan allt h\u00e4nda och det h\u00e4nder. 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