Verkligen t\u00e4nkv\u00e4rt!! (som jag fick fr\u00e5n en v\u00e4n…)<\/p>\n
Det var en g\u00e5ng en liten pojke som l\u00e4tt blev arg. Hans pappa gav honom en n\u00e4vefull med spik och sa till honom att varje g\u00e5ng han blir\u00a0arg skall han g\u00e5 bakom huset och sl\u00e5 i en spik i staketet.<\/p>\n
F\u00f6rsta dagen slog pojken in 37 spikar. Efter n\u00e5gra veckor l\u00e4rde han sig kontrollera sin vrede och antalet islagna spikar minskade hela tiden. Han m\u00e4rkte att det \u00e4r l\u00e4ttare att beh\u00e4rska sin vrede \u00e4n att sl\u00e5 in spikar i staketet. Slutligen kom den dagen d\u00e5 pojken inte blev arg en enda g\u00e5ng. Han sa det till sin pappa och denne f\u00f6reslog honom att dra ut en spik fr\u00e5n staketet varje dag han inte blir arg alls.<\/p>\n
Dagarna gick, och efter en tid kunde pojken tala om f\u00f6r sin pappa att det inte fanns en enda spik kvar i staketet. D\u00e5 tog pappan pojkens hand, och ledde honom till staketet. D\u00e4r sa han till honom: ‘Det var bra gjort, min gosse, men titta p\u00e5 alla dessa h\u00e5l, det h\u00e4r staketet blir aldrig mera som det har varit. N\u00e4r du s\u00e4ger n\u00e5got i vredesmod l\u00e4mnar det just s\u00e5dana h\u00e4r \u00e4rr. Som om du skulle sticka in en kniv i en m\u00e4nniska och dra ut den igen. Det spelar ingen roll, hur m\u00e5nga g\u00e5nger du ber om f\u00f6rl\u00e5telse, skadan \u00e4r redan skedd. En skada orsakad av ett ov\u00e4nligt ord g\u00f6r lika ont som ett fysiskt slag. V\u00e4nner \u00e4r i sj\u00e4lva verket v\u00e4ldigt s\u00e4llsynta \u00e4delstenar. Dom g\u00f6r dig glad och st\u00f6djer dig i allt. Dom lyssnar till dig n\u00e4r du har bekymmer, ber\u00f6mmer dig och \u00e4r alltid redo att \u00f6ppna sitt hj\u00e4rta f\u00f6r Dig.<\/p>\n
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Verkligen t\u00e4nkv\u00e4rt!! (som jag fick fr\u00e5n en v\u00e4n…) Det var en g\u00e5ng en liten pojke som l\u00e4tt blev arg. Hans pappa gav honom en n\u00e4vefull med spik och sa till honom att varje g\u00e5ng han blir\u00a0arg skall han g\u00e5 bakom huset och sl\u00e5 i en spik i staketet. F\u00f6rsta dagen slog pojken in 37 spikar. 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