Han \u00e4r gammal. \u00c5ttio tror jag. Ringer in till radioprogrammet. S\u00f6ker. Ja han s\u00f6ker. Vad, fr\u00e5gar programledaren. “En kvinna” svarar mannen. En kvinna som \u00e4r sn\u00e4ll och har k\u00f6rkort. De \u00e4r de enda kraven. Sn\u00e4ll. Har k\u00f6rkort. Du \u00e4r min kvinna.<\/p>\n
Han har n\u00e4mligen bil. Men han har ocks\u00e5 diabetes. F\u00e5r inte k\u00f6ra. Han \u00e4r ensam. S\u00e5 o\u00e4ndligt ensam. Beh\u00f6ver s\u00e4llskap. Dagarna blir l\u00e5nga. Allt f\u00f6r l\u00e5nga. Ja och de finns en bil som sagt. En kvinna med k\u00f6rkort och han kan ta den och \u00e5ka runt i landskapet och se sig omkring. Hon som skall vara sn\u00e4ll k\u00f6r. Han sitter bredvid. Dagarna blir kortare. Livet l\u00e4ttare. Tv\u00e5 skrattar oftare \u00e4n en.<\/p>\n
Om han fann den d\u00e4r kvinnan vet jag inte. Det f\u00e5r man aldrig reda p\u00e5 i de d\u00e4r s\u00f6k och finn programmen. Men jag hoppas det. Hans ensamhet, det d\u00e4r, “dagarna blir l\u00e5nga”, griper tag i mig. De \u00e4r s\u00e5 m\u00e5nga de d\u00e4r ensamma m\u00e4nnen. De som efter pensionen f\u00f6rlorar sin identitet, de som efter en hustrus fr\u00e5nf\u00e4lle f\u00f6rlorar den sista kontakten med all m\u00e4nsklighet utanf\u00f6r hemtj\u00e4nsten. Jovisst kan man f\u00e5 sig n\u00e5gra sekunders sm\u00e5prat och ett leende av den sn\u00e4lla kass\u00f6rskan p\u00e5 ICA, men det g\u00e5r ju inte att springa d\u00e4r varje dag heller. Pensionen \u00e4r skral. Dagarna l\u00e5nga. Ja jag hoppas verkligen att han fann sin sn\u00e4lla kvinna med k\u00f6rkort.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Han \u00e4r gammal. \u00c5ttio tror jag. Ringer in till radioprogrammet. S\u00f6ker. Ja han s\u00f6ker. Vad, fr\u00e5gar programledaren. “En kvinna” svarar mannen. En kvinna som \u00e4r sn\u00e4ll och har k\u00f6rkort. De \u00e4r de enda kraven. Sn\u00e4ll. Har k\u00f6rkort. Du \u00e4r min kvinna. Han har n\u00e4mligen bil. Men han har ocks\u00e5 diabetes. F\u00e5r inte k\u00f6ra. 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