Det \u00e4r ganska sk\u00f6nt att bli \u00e4ldre faktiskt. Ja, jag brukar skriva gubbe h\u00e4r eftersom det var s\u00e5 mina elever p\u00e5 gymnasiet s\u00e5g mig. Det \u00e4r inte sv\u00e5rt f\u00f6r mig heller att se den bilden dom s\u00e5g. S\u00e5klart man \u00e4r gammal n\u00e4r deras tv\u00e5 \u00e5r yngre kompisar \u00e4r barnungar och dom fem \u00e5r \u00e4ldre on\u00e5bara. Vad blir n\u00e5gon som \u00e4r tre decennier \u00e4ldre d\u00e5? Jo, sj\u00e4lvklart gubbe. Men som sagt det kan vara ett ganska sk\u00f6nt tillst\u00e5nd. I alla fall om man f\u00f6rlikar sig med det. Gubbmyser lite genom livet liksom. \u00c4r det n\u00e5gon ung vacker kvinna som mot f\u00f6rmodan ler mot en i det tillst\u00e5ndet s\u00e5 f\u00e5r man v\u00e4l ta det som en yngre man och njuta av situationen. Gubbmysa. Ja, man n\u00f6jer sig ju liksom med sj\u00e4lva leendet i den h\u00e4r \u00e5ldern. Kan leva l\u00e4nge p\u00e5 det. Oftast kryper det \u00e4nd\u00e5 fram efter n\u00e5gra dagar att det var n\u00e5gons dotter som man inte k\u00e4nde igen, f\u00f6r tredje g\u00e5ngen det h\u00e4r \u00e5ret, som frambringade det d\u00e4r leendet p\u00e5 rent igenk\u00e4nnande. Ansikten \u00e4r inte l\u00e4tta att minnas f\u00f6r gubbar. Speciellt inte om dom tillh\u00f6r yngre kvinnor som ler.<\/p>\n
Ser man bara till det yttre n\u00e4r man pratar \u00e5lder s\u00e5 \u00e4r det s\u00e5klart gr\u00e5tt h\u00e5r, rynkor, stela kroppar och s\u00e5nt som skapar gamlingar. Men den andra aspekten \u00e4r det som finns inuti. Jag har definitivt haft elever som varit mer gubbe \u00e4n vad jag \u00e4r p\u00e5 insidan. S\u00e5dana man hoppas f\u00e5r blir lite “yngre” med \u00e5ren. Precis som somliga av oss gubbar borde ta och v\u00e4xa upp lite medan vi \u00e4nd\u00e5 h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 att f\u00e5 gr\u00e5a h\u00e5r och stela muskler liksom men \u00e4nd\u00e5 inte g\u00f6r det.<\/p>\n
Men annars \u00e4r det nog mest sk\u00f6nt att vara gubbe. Folk bryr sig liksom inte om en lika mycket l\u00e4ngre. Inget man g\u00f6r tas liksom p\u00e5 allvar. Man \u00e4r likst\u00e4lld i alla situationer med n\u00e5gon som matar duvor i parken. Innan man kommer p\u00e5 det h\u00e4r och allts\u00e5 tycker att det man \u00e5stadkommer \u00e4r \u00e5tminstone lika bra, eller d\u00e5ligt, om vi nu skall vara aningens negativa, s\u00e5 funderar man ju vad det \u00e4r som h\u00e4nder. Men n\u00e4r man kommer p\u00e5 det d\u00e4r hemliga s\u00e5 blir man helt pl\u00f6tsligt friare \u00e4n man tidigare varit i hela sitt liv. Det finns liksom inget man kan g\u00f6ra l\u00e4ngre f\u00f6r att bli o-coolare s\u00e5 det \u00e4r bara \u00f6sa p\u00e5. Den totala skapelsefriheten infinner sig. F\u00f6r f\u00f6rsta g\u00e5ngen i livet kan man fullst\u00e4ndigt ge sig h\u00e4n \u00e5t dom d\u00e4r grejerna man \u00e4lskar att g\u00f6ra men som man inte v\u00e5gat g\u00f6ra f\u00f6r att folk skulle tycka man var l\u00f6jlig. Nu \u00e4r man liksom de facto l\u00f6jlig. Det \u00e4r i alla fall s\u00e5 en o-cool gubbe i Los skapades. En ganska n\u00f6jd o-cool gubbe vill jag till\u00e4gga. S\u00e5 skit p\u00e5 er sm\u00e5ungar. Det \u00e4r att vara gubbe som rockar!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Det \u00e4r ganska sk\u00f6nt att bli \u00e4ldre faktiskt. Ja, jag brukar skriva gubbe h\u00e4r eftersom det var s\u00e5 mina elever p\u00e5 gymnasiet s\u00e5g mig. Det \u00e4r inte sv\u00e5rt f\u00f6r mig heller att se den bilden dom s\u00e5g. S\u00e5klart man \u00e4r gammal n\u00e4r deras tv\u00e5 \u00e5r yngre kompisar \u00e4r barnungar och dom fem \u00e5r \u00e4ldre on\u00e5bara. 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