{"id":11819,"date":"2014-01-28T21:45:33","date_gmt":"2014-01-28T20:45:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.eurosource.se\/akhe\/wordpress\/?p=11819"},"modified":"2014-01-28T21:53:56","modified_gmt":"2014-01-28T20:53:56","slug":"grav-dar-du-star-sa-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=11819","title":{"rendered":"Gr\u00e4v d\u00e4r du st\u00e5r, sa man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.eurosource.se\/akhe\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/Spade-webb-stor.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.eurosource.se\/akhe\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/Spade-webb-stor.jpg?resize=580%2C434\" alt=\"Spade-webb-stor\" width=\"580\" height=\"434\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-11820\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jag blev Losbo av en slump 1986. Ett hus var till salu n\u00e4r vi semestrade h\u00e4r och bara n\u00e5gra m\u00e5nader senare best\u00e4mde vi oss f\u00f6r att l\u00e4mna Stockholm. Visst jag pendlade f\u00f6rsta \u00e5ret, men allts\u00e5 bara ett \u00e5r senare brummade bilen upp fr\u00e5n Stockholm \u00f6ver Dalarna i en triumff\u00e4rd. Ja, det k\u00e4ndes s\u00e5. Det var ocks\u00e5 d\u00e4rf\u00f6r jag \u00e5kte den l\u00e4ngre v\u00e4gen \u00f6ver Dalarna ist\u00e4llet f\u00f6r att ta E4&#8217;an, jag ville njuta av f\u00e4rden en timme extra. Nu var jag fri och ett nytt liv b\u00f6rjade. Eget f\u00f6retag och det skulle bevisas om det gick att leva p\u00e5 dr\u00f6mmen.<\/p>\n<p>Nu h\u00f6r det till saken att vi inte ens bodde i Stockholm utan i T\u00e4by och att vi bara gjorde det i fyra \u00e5r. Edsbybo kan man v\u00e4l s\u00e4ga att mitt ursprung \u00e4r som mest. Det k\u00e4nns s\u00e5 och  i alla fall d\u00e5 var det sant f\u00f6r d\u00e4r hade jag i alla fall bott i tjugotv\u00e5 \u00e5r. Men Uppsalabo eller Katrineholmsbo skulle man v\u00e4l lika v\u00e4l kunna s\u00e4ga att b\u00e5de jag och min fru var eftersom vi bott d\u00e4r ocks\u00e5.<\/p>\n<p>Men i Los blev vi allts\u00e5 \u201dStockholmarna\u201d. Tankbilens chauff\u00f6r som skulle leverera br\u00e4nsle stannade hos en granne och fr\u00e5gade efter v\u00e4gen. Det tog en stund innan grannen fattade vart han skulle men sen sken han upp och sa \u201djaha, det \u00e4r de d\u00e4r nyinflyttade Stockholmarna som bor&#8230;\u201d och vid det laget hade vi \u00e4nd\u00e5 bott h\u00e4r i tio \u00e5r. <\/p>\n<p>Tjugo \u00e5r senare s\u00e5 var vi fortfarande de nyinflyttade \u201dStockholmarna\u201d och nu n\u00e4r vi n\u00e4stan bott h\u00e4r i trettio \u00e5r s\u00e5 har ingenting f\u00f6r\u00e4ndrats. Det tar tid att bli Losbo. Det r\u00e4cker inte ens, som f\u00f6r v\u00e5ra tv\u00e5 s\u00f6ner,  att man \u00e4r f\u00f6dd h\u00e4r om man \u00e4r barn till \u201dnyinflyttade Stockholmare\u201d. Man blir inte Losbo d\u00e5 heller i br\u00e5drasket. \u201dStockholmare\u201d de med av bara farten. <\/p>\n<p>Men allt det d\u00e4r v\u00e4njer man sig vid. F\u00f6r det finns inget ont upps\u00e5t bakom liksom. Folket h\u00e4r h\u00e5ller bara fast vid det som en g\u00e5ng var sagt och s\u00e5 f\u00e5r det forts\u00e4tta att vara. Man f\u00e5r finna sig i att bli betraktad som lite eljest. En  som h\u00e5ller p\u00e5 med datorer och elektronik. Sitter hemma hela dagarna och som  inte ens \u00e4r med p\u00e5 \u00e4lgjakten, \u00e5ker inte skoter, fiskar inte och \u00e4ter inte k\u00f6tt och har inte ens fyrhjuling. En stackare. En \u201dStockholmsstackare\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Att vara \u201dStockholmare\u201d fast man inte \u00e4r det kan jag leva med. I allt annat \u00e4r m\u00e4nniskorna h\u00e4r de trofastaste och v\u00e4nligaste, \u00e4rligaste och sn\u00e4llaste jag n\u00e5gonsin m\u00f6tt. Visst kan man f\u00e5 kommentarer om att man \u00e4ntligen ser ut som folk nere p\u00e5 aff\u00e4ren efter att man klippt h\u00e5ret eller att man minsann k\u00f6pte godis ig\u00e5r ocks\u00e5 men det h\u00e4r till om man bor p\u00e5 en liten ort.  Man f\u00e5r liksom st\u00e5 f\u00f6r det man \u00e4r och hur man handlar.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e5 n\u00e4r vi flyttade hit drev myndigheterna en kampanj \u201dgr\u00e4v d\u00e4r du st\u00e5r\u201d, nu har alla gr\u00e4vt d\u00e4r de st\u00e5r ute p\u00e5 landsbygden s\u00e5 att inte en endaste en l\u00e4ngre ser n\u00e5gon framtid. Men r\u00e4tt vad det \u00e4r hittar v\u00e4l n\u00e5gon olja d\u00e4r i sin grop och d\u00e5 v\u00e4nder det. D\u00e5 blir v\u00e4l alla h\u00e4r \u201dStockholmare\u201d. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag blev Losbo av en slump 1986. Ett hus var till salu n\u00e4r vi semestrade h\u00e4r och bara n\u00e5gra m\u00e5nader senare best\u00e4mde vi oss f\u00f6r att l\u00e4mna Stockholm. Visst jag pendlade f\u00f6rsta \u00e5ret, men allts\u00e5 bara ett \u00e5r senare brummade bilen upp fr\u00e5n Stockholm \u00f6ver Dalarna i en triumff\u00e4rd. Ja, det k\u00e4ndes s\u00e5. Det var [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11819","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-betraktelser"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":13234,"url":"https:\/\/www.akehedman.se\/wordpress\/?p=13234","url_meta":{"origin":11819,"position":0},"title":"\u00c4nnu en v\u00e4n \u00e4r d\u00f6d","author":"\u00c5ke Hedman","date":"2014-05-27","format":false,"excerpt":"De d\u00f6r runt omkring mig och kunde jag gr\u00e5ta, men jag kan visst inte det nu f\u00f6r tiden, s\u00e5 skulle jag gjort det n\u00e4r jag sl\u00e5r upp familjesidorna i min tidning nu p\u00e5 morgonen. 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